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November 01, 2009

R.I.P.

When I sent the thread "Changsha Students Who Drowned Trying to Saving Children" to my friend, her first reaction was: "Oh my god. This is tragic." Her second reaction was: "Some couldn't even swim and they still went into the river? How stupid are these college freshmen?" It was then that I dimly recalled the precautions one should take when saving people who drown, a task which, according to everyone, is a dangerous undertaking.

I don't think the students' decision was a matter of stupidity. A poll on Kaixin once revealed that only 52% of the Chinese who voted can swim. This means that the number of people who systematically studied water safety will be much, much less. Given this statistic, is it realistic to expect the students to be fully aware of the extra peril introduced by a thrashing drowning person? After all the persons in question are only 12-year-olds with probably half of the body mass of an adult.

Having taken this likely ignorance into account, I would still say that the rescue effort by the college students was one of the more ingenious plans for action. Namely they formed a line by linking hands until the ninth person reached the kids. It was bold yes, and with bravado that accompanies the youth, but it also guaranteed their own safety to an extent. The fact that they managed to save both kids is a testament to its plausibility.

No, the tragedy happened not due to stupidity but because of a human tendency to overestimate their own limits (e.g, the student who failed to hold on), the lack of proper safety measures that should be implemented at these accident-prone spots, and some people's cruelty, who despite of having the necessary skills and equipment would watch someone die so that they can make money. Compared to the fishermen, the students appear even more heroic.

I hate to think about the families who just lost their sons. China is not like the west, where people have nest eggs so that they can afford some nursing home when they become old and senile. Chinese parents invest a huge mount, time- and money-wise, in their children. The expectation is that after reaching adulthood, these children shall return and care for their parents. If the families are all city folks, then it is very likely that they have just lost their only child. And because of the age restriction the government imposes on marriages (legal only after 23), the parents will be at least 43 year old, long past the prime time to have offspring. So, who will take care of them now? If there is ever a good reason to donate and/or make a memorial fund, now is the perfect time.



Let the dead rest in peace. May the living be strong.



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October 18, 2009

I don't want to be Fenqing, but this news makes me depressed.

Took a nap. After waking up, a friend sent me this article on Jiang, Yan's husband. "Anyone still remember the girl who committed suicide because her husband Wang, Fei Cheated on Her"? For background on Jiang Yan suicide, go to http://www.zonaeuropa.com/20080120_1.htm

The problem is that the marriage laws in China are "strange." According to the information that I found on-line, one literally has to catch the adulterers naked, in the act, and in one's own home to prove infidelity. I think a pregnancy outside of wedlock might count as evidence but there are people who say no. Never a day goes by without some Chinese woman on-line crying about her father, grandfather, or husband cheating--it is all very numbing.

  还有人记得两年前因为王菲出轨跳楼的姜岩么?据说王菲现在升官发财

Are there people who still remember Jiang, Yan from two years ago? She jumped off a building because her husband Wang, Fei cheated on her. I heard Wang, Fei is being promoted now and making a fortune.

  在网上看见了他们圈内人士的最新消息,王菲跟当年的第三者东方已婚,而且本人升官发财,想起当年跳楼的姜岩,不禁大有感慨。如果她当年可以熬下来,好好活着,那有多好阿。

I saw online what people who know Wang wrote. Wang, Fei married that third party (Chinese word for those who sleep with married people and break up marriages) Dong, Fang. What's more, he is being promoted now and making a fortune. I think about Jiang, Yan, and I have to sigh. If only she resisted the urge and lived, how good it would have been.

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  来爆个小料:大家还记得两年前因为出轨导致老婆跳楼的事情么?(魅力1千) Post By:2009-10-16 9:32:00
(The insider story)
  
  以下内容需要魅力达到1000才可以浏览
Requires Reading Points to be 1000 to view  
  
  稍微把魅力设置高了点,就在华人说说吧
I made the reading threshold pretty high. Want to keep the story inside our forum Hua Ren  

  大家还记得吧,2007年底,因为丈夫出轨,从24楼跳下身亡的那个女孩子,她老公叫王非的那个
Everybody remembers the girl who at the end of 2007 jumped off from the 24th floor of a building and died. Whose husband is named Wang, Fei
  
  据可靠消息,王非现在已经回北京奥美工作,职位比他两年前出事的时候还高了半级,而且他如果不出这个事情,现在也就这个职位
According to reliable sources, Wang, Fei has now returned to work at Ogilvy & Mather. His position is higher than before. If it weren't for the Jiang, Yan mess, he would already have been promoted to this position.

  据说是王非在奥美的老上司器重他,一定要求他回去工作的(出事的时候,王非没在奥美,而在盛世长城广告公司,小三也是在那里认识的)
Wang Fei returned because his old boss at Ogilvy & Mather regards him highly, demanding that he go there to work (At the time Jiang, Yan died, Wang Fei was working in Saatchi. He and the "little three" (Chinese: 小三, meaning young girls who sleep with older married man) met at Saatchi.)
  
  和小三目前已经结婚了
He and the "little three" are now married.  

  而且在他出事后,被盛世长城开除以后到回奥美工作的一段时间里,他也有经济来源,一直给各个广告公司做freelancer
Even after he was fired by Saatchi because of the scandal, he still had income as a freelance artist, because a lot of advertising agencies gave him projects.  

  听了这个消息后,我也不知道该说什么,有些事情,法律管不了,公共舆论的监督力量其实也挺有限的。愿死者安息吧
After I heard about Wang's return, I really didn't know what to say. There are some things against which the law is quite ineffective, and public admonishment can only do so much. May the dead rest in peace.

  我的浏览器总是不正常,555~
My browser is not working properly. Cry.  

  关于上司的部分,还是删掉了,毕竟人家和这个事情也不直接相关,说太多也不好
The part about his boss has been deleted. After all the man is not directly related to the scandal.

September 13, 2009

Chinese Culture Specific Terminology

Glossary

  • Concerned Department (department in charge) (Chinese:有关部门 Pinyin: yǒu​ guān​ bù ​mén​​)
Current Meaning: This is one of the most mysterious departments to ever exist in Chinese politics. To avoid pointing fingers, many Chinese news reports will replace the specific ministry/bureaus name with "yǒu​ guān​ bù ​mén​​." So when citizens do have complaints, they never know which government agency to contact.

  • gunmen (Chinese: 枪手; Pinyin: qiāng shǒu​)
Current Meaning: The term has many meanings.
1. Someone who is hired secretly to write under the name of a more famous author.

2. Netizens who praise or denigrate another out of some ulterior move--such as money--while pretending they don't have any special interest at all
  • JP (pinyin abbreviation for ji pin Chinese: 极品)
"Ji pin" literally means "highest grade or quality." However, nowadays it is mostly used to describe people or deeds that are base/low/sordid/bad to an extreme.
  • lei (Chinese: 雷)
Literally means being struck by thunder or accidentally stepping on a mine. People use it to express their shock and [typically] disapproval.
  • MM (abbr for 1美眉 and sometimes 2妹妹; Pinyin: 1 měi méi, 2 mèi mèi )
Current Meaning: 1. Beautiful young girl; 2. sister (as in girlfriend)

  • SB or 傻逼 or 傻屄 (Pinyin: shǎ bī)
Current Meaning: It means stupid person but the manner of expression is dirtier and more crude, i.e. it literally means "stupid cunt"

  • tofu-dreg project (Chinese: 豆腐渣; Pinyin: Dòu Fu Zhā)
Origin: Dreg leftover after making tofu. High in fiber content.
Current Meaning: Used in mainland to refer to poorly constructed buildings, especially cases in which the contractors skimp on construction materials in order to pocket the saved money.

  • 小三 or 小3 (Pinyin: xiǎo sān)
Current Meaning: It literally means "little 3" and is derived from the word "third party," i.e. someone who intrudes on and often breaks up a marriage. The term has come to signify in China an ever expanding group of women, typically young, who latch onto older married men that already have money and status in the society.

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